The question of forgiveness is not a moral issue. We do not forgive because it is the “correct” thing to do. We forgive because it is the true nature of the life in Christ.
…the refusal to forgive, the continuation of blame, recrimination, bitterness, etc. are not moral failings. They are existential crises – drawing us away from the life of Christ and Paradise, and ever deeper into an abyss of non-being.
Based on Fr. Stephen Freeman
A moment from the Divine Liturgy at the Vatopedi Skete of St. Demetrius on Mount Athos.